Self Worth

In  past  and in present  times a  lot  of  musicians have sung about  healing from a broken heart  and expressing their feeling to the lost spouse.

 In these songs i have  realised that most  f these women as much  as they are hurting   they have finally realised their Self Worth hence  they let  go  of the relationship  even in those cases of  them being  dumped one can clearly hear the strong emotion attached to the realization that they deserved so much  more.

One of the most  famous songs that  speaks about letting Go and Moving on after a broken heart  is a song by Diana Ross- I will survive , my favourite  part  is when she says
At first I was afraid, I was petrified
Kept thinkin’ I could never live without you by my side
Then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And I learned how to get along

It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
Just trying hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart
And I spent oh so many nights just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry, but now I hold my head up high
And you see me, somebody new
I’m not that chained up little person still in love with you
And so you felt like dropping in and just expect me to be free
But now I’m savin’ all my lovin’ for someone who’s lovin’ me

The only way one can truly heal is to first admit  that you have been hurt,it is said that crying  is the best medicine to mend a broken heart.

 To  all my  ladies i say to you ,every Princess deserves  a Prince so wait upon the Lord  to Give you ,your Prince,we all have kissed frogs that did not  turn into  a Prince  but if you search in the right pond you will find your Prince waiting for you.  

Knowing your self worth will always guide you  and keep safe from a broken  heart ,know what you want and go for it .